I am going to be an outlier, but my go-to is the Fleshskins [My Review]
I don’t like an overly tight fit and the ability to hold the sleeve in place using the strap through the fingerholes allows you to keep the strap pretty loose. The thinner walls of the Fleshskins expand easily too. The interior is a variant of the Fleshlight Stoya which, for awhile, was considered a very stimulating sleeve. The combination of the loose fit and the high stimulation just does it for me.
It’s not much like a hand job though.
