I usually aim for at least 30m total session time now, ideally 1.5 hours if I have the time.
I’m throwing on different scripts switching between high and low intensity so its not just one video, if I get too close I switch to something else or pause for a bit.
By the hour mark I’m so edged out I know the end is near so then I look for a good finisher script.
over 45 here and married, active and kinky sex life with my partner…I just have a crazy high libido thanks to ADHD and it got amped (lmfao, maybe “amphed”?) by vyvanse.
With regular old manual… obviously there’s the most control over duration. Sometimes you goon out after long enough when the stimulation becomes overstimulation, and cumming doesn’t happen, but your hand sure gets prune-y. As you get older too, fucking can wind up this way as well - “hold off” a couple too many times to ensure she’s/they’ve had theirs first ('cause we’re nice guys, right?) and you’re in for a marathon that isn’t going to finish.
I’m an e-stimmer, and with that, I have nearly perfect control over a session. Getting too close, might tip over the edge? Turn down the dial just a touch. Stim files are often designed for long sessions too - so even the regular stimfile will edge and retreat on its own. Too long and you start to numb out, though, but that also depends on the file. Some of the most intense orgasms I’ve had were after a couple hours of video-synced content that edged me along. I also have a few files that can force me from flaccid to spraying a nut within minutes.
But with a fleshlight by hand, it took some practice to not bust right away. Defintiely far more stimulating physically than IRL fucking. Still - control over pace and everything is close to the ol’ manual.
The robots though… something about the not-being-in-control just brings an expert-level of difficulty. The multi-axis Rachel Starr compilation? It’s only like 4 minutes long and I’ve never finished it without busting.
i didn’t use these much, how could i get a heatmap like this?by some software?the numbers of heatmap’s i saw on the script information page are too different with this to refer.
and how is that possible to hold for……i mean, i goon for hours and edge repeatedly either.but half an hour with almost no stopping?i would cum in 1 min(if in the good condition. ) if not stopped
I usually enjoy a good deep stroke over extreme fast stimulation.
If i want to come fast i need to be in the mood for it. Cause even the fast strokes wont get me off faster then me getting stroke burn xD. I usually go for a hour of good action and get to the high when its a stop and go pattern with pauses.
Longest i tried was about 3 hours. Couldn’t stay hard and came flaccid in the end. I think its just hard to stay excited that long for me.
Speaking from real sex. 5min to 2 hours, given the level of excitment. A visit to a local gloryhole date or something like that is on the faster side. A pickup from a bar or disco, can last 2 hours + relaxation time and restart of the whole thing.