How long do you usually last？

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i know it’s a question that been asked too many times here, but this time I’m not asking for advice to last longer or something, just curious, and really interested in it.

I know many would say it depends, depends on the script, or depends on the mood.well, just give some representative answers, and along with the link of your favorite would be even better, thus others could know how exactly it’s be like.

I guess I’m just kinda different with most people，like for the most of the script, it’s hard for me to go through 1 minute, if it’s not slow as a warming up（it depends, warming up is quite intense sometimes）.and if it’s some real intense part, 30 seconds is about enough……

for example,i usually cum around 1 minute with this one below（usually end with Shenhe part,which is the first intercourse part）
https://discuss.eroscripts.com/t/multi-axis-genshin-impact-2-phut-hon-by-bengugu-twist-plus/236128

and another short one, i don’t remember if i’ve made it to the end, maybe once but basically failed
https://discuss.eroscripts.com/t/slayed-coom-widowmaker-at-the-gym-requested/106297

just like the examples above, even it’s just around 1 minute and with prologue, it’s hard for me to go through without cumming.it’s not i could cum in that thime, it’s likely the best i could do usually.so i was wondering are others really using all these scripts normally？the 5 minutes short video without stopping should be easy for a normal guy？like watching several of them before cumming？ and is that really possible about those 40 minutes long FH things？hard to imagine for myself.

and it’s not bothering me by the way, so i don’t really need help with it，neither would really hurt by some comments, just hoping others are willing to share their experience or thoughts : )

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If I want to last just a few minutes, I can. If I want to edge for hours, I can do that too. It’s also fun to have several orgasms in a session so I don’t always edge a lot.
Sometimes depending on mood and stuff I can’t prevent climax through sheer willpower and instead need to turn down the intensity to stay at the edge but after having come down from the edge the first one or two times, the rest of the session I’m able to control it regardless of stimulation by controlling my pelvic floor muscles and mental focus.

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A question with no real answer.

It depends on so many things… which device and sleeve i use, which content i watch. For example Shalina Devine is my absolute weekspot, especially if its a video where she begs to cum inside her, that beats me every time, i created some cock hero vids just for myself only with her… (dont ask, will not share it, i dont have the possibilities to upload this and iam not comfortable with sharing this content either, copyright violations and such)

Of course speed of the script is a factor too. Fast scripts? Dunno not that long… 2-3 minutes for a fast paced passage, especially if the run already took some time before. But it depends too, because… TOO fast is a turnoff for me, the sleeves and motions dont feel great anymore if its too fast, no matter if i use the handy or OSR. Most scripts around here have passages with 200ms and lower between an up and down movement. Way too fast for my liking and it feels always bad like that. My personal turning point is about 250ms for one motion (so, either up or down, not a complete stroke, for a complete stroke it needs to be around 500ms for me, or it feels bad). But again it depends on the stroke length too… shorter motions can be a little quicker and still feel good.

And on the total opposite way, i can easily cum when its a nice and real slow script and motion with erotic content that gets me going too… for example the klixen-teasing-tongue vids are really nice… created some simple scripts just for them, starting with 4000 ms for a complete stroke and getting faster bit by bit, if iam in the mood i can cum like that when i reach 2000 ms full stroke or even slower.

I can “fight” the approaching orgasm for a while if i want too, but if its really close and the pace doesnt slow down, i will bust a nut within 2-3 minutes tops. But i can edge fairly long i think. But the script has to fit this purpose… most script i download are not to my liking, i edit them usually a lot. Sometimes it destroys the “follow up” with the video, but i dont care if it feels shitty.

For real sex (yeah i still have sex) it highly depends on the woman and what she does. Do i cum sometimes way too early? I am no pornstud, yes i do, if we find our rythm i can go a long time, if iam the one going “fast” i usually last longer… cause i have to concentrate a little more on what iam doing and its kinda excercise too of course, so… that delays the orgasm quite a bit. If the woman goes all in, i usually dont stand a chance very long, 1-2 minutes if the lady goes all in.

Overall, iam very sensitive i would say and i like slower sensual motions and sex more than “bed-sport”

And please please please… dont think that most things you see in porn are even close to “normal” or that you have to go the same pace as long as pornstars do… most of the scenes are shot an entire day anyways… with a lot of breaks and so on. Even the amateur and onlyfans contents are not done in one shot most of the time…

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As the other commenters and you yourself have already illustrated, it depends on many factors. But I would like to shift the focus from how long a session lasts, to how pleasurable it is. Of course there is a relation between those as well, but generally speaking, how long a session is, isn’t a primary indication of how nice a session is.

Interestingly enough, it is easier for me to last long, if it’s a fast script (or irl act) than it is with slower, more teasing movements. If I can anthropomorphize my dick for a moment: If I start with a furiously fast script (think Cock Hero Fail or alot of PMV scripts out there) after a short time (a few minutes), my dick says: “Oooooweee! All those nerves are getting some serious action. Let’s explode!”. When I say: “Well no, not yet. I haven’t beaten the game yet/that wasn’t enough”, the answer is “pffft… well then I’ll just turn down the sensitivity. Try to have fun with that!”. At that point I could go on for an hour or longer, but it won’t be a pleasurable hour.

If on the other hand, it’s a more slow script with a lot of variety of speed and range (it can go very slow and very fast at times, but not just a jackhammer for minutes at a time), the sensitivity stays and it is a lot harder to resist, especially if at a point there comes a more monotone segment at the right speed and region (and of course the audio-visual material is appealing). So that might be 5 mins, 15 mins or an hour, but it’s a lot more pleasurable than 2 hours of jack-hammering (which just feels awful pretty quickly tbh).

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If she’s Anna Ralphs 5 seconds, if not 4-8 hours.

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10min to 1 hour, i dont wanna setting everything okay and just finish in 2 minutes.
i use SSR1 and my sleeve is Tomax Venus Rich soft(a japanese brand), i also used MFP to record every session while i playing funscript.
it really depends on the sleeve and funscript speed, and i like to add a shortcut to edging, i set the ‘Home’ key to toggle MFP speedlimit to 0, i found this very helpful to get better experience.also consider stroke length.

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As all the others have said, it really depends on your sleeve, mood, video, etc etc…

I too sometimes wonder “Man, do people really manage to last that long?”, but more often then not I don’t worry about it, since each body ticks differently.

To actually answer though, personally, I find that after going for 3-5 minutes or so, that’s usuallly when I’ll end up ending my session.

Sometimes, much as it pains me to do, I have to take a pause and stop the video for a breather, if the script is really intense, or if I just don’t want to orgasm yet. Other times, I’ve found myself already close to cumming from 1 minutes into a slow, teasing script, or just the start of a video. And then if I’m really feeling it, I’ll rarely go another round and usually end up lasting longer, around the 7 minute mark or so.

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I have tried a few scripts that personally I have found too intense and have lasted only about four minutes. This is fine for a short video but for longer vids, I have found this a bot disappointing. At the risk of sounding like I am promoting my own work, my scripts focus more on realistic syncs to the vids so are less intense than some of the scripts out there if you want the experience to last a little longer.

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i like longer scripts. there are alot of good long scripts on here that are slow so i can last 2-3 hrs if i really want to. for me it comes down to my edges. if i edge and make it past 2-3 times i tend to be good for the rest of the session but really struggle to get to the point of cumming. but if i want to i can blow my load on my first “edge approach” (that sounds weird) it wont take me long.

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yeah, i know the porn is not the reference, and I’m not worry about it actually, just curious how others would like, that’s why I’m still asking even if i know it depends on lots of things,the answers from others help me to know about it.

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interesting idea,but the actual situation for me is when I’m gathering my will and telling my dick to hold onslaught, it collapse in about half a minute……that’s all i can do, and I’m feeling that i like that situation

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yeah i got venus rs too, basically using verysoft or richsoft all the time, that’s why i didn’t mention the sleeve, i consider it’s more stimulating or at least the same by default.by the way new Virgos liber and veritas is really amazing.

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could you give some examples of those long scripts？i didn’t really cared them much before because i know i the rest of them except the first part means nothing much to me.

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Without edging and taking a break, it’s somewhere from 1min to 3mins usually with scripts, even when I modify the scripts to reduce the intensity. I’d love to last longer but don’t know how, maybe change sleeves or more lube ?

Wierdly enough I can last much longer in bed…

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Usually a quarter mile at a time.

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yeah sure thing, i love the scripts made in this post. I have been enjoying 89 recently. sorry for the late response. https://discuss.eroscripts.com/t/2-hour-experience-300-slow-unique-pattern-edge-script-new-3-hour-ultraslow-script/192924/107

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I’d say that asking for others’ experience is just human. And a window into the variety in the world.

You know… reading the question and all the responses here, has not made me lust after men. :man_shrugging:

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I’ll pause frequently if its an intense long script and I want to go longer.

< 5 min pmvs are nice because it’s a length where it’s possible to go through the entire thing, rest, then load a different one.

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I’ve been both sides of the fence in this and usually post when this is asked.

I was always a literal three pump guy. On Good days I could have last couple minutes after I take my pants off (I don’t do edging), but after few days of nofap I could achieve hands-free orgasm.
Tried creams sprays and condoms, but they didn’t have effect on me at least.

Roll to my early 30 and finally got over the stigma of therapy and psychiatrist. And now I have been popping pills for few years (Setraline&Mirtazapin since someone will want to know)

Now I actually need to make time for jerking and choose my evening plans. If I don’t have three hours to kill, I just need to wait for the next day. After break sometimes I cum around an hour mark, specially if the right video hits, but more often than not it’s 2-3h.
Like I said earlier, I don’t edge, so the time is from the time I lube up handy to the time I’m finished straight playtime. Deep continuous rhythm gets me more than anything else, which isn’t usually what you get in hentai/animations.
(Great example would be “Ijirare Fukushuu Saimin BARS” by moka45. Sadly, they deleted all content not so long ago so I can’t link to the script.)

-No, My sex drive hasn’t gone down, which is sometimes problematic.
-Yes, It still feels good, just less stimulating for the first 30-45min’ish.
-Yes, lasting longer has helped me with my depression.
-Yes your funscripts are godsend because fuck jerking by hand at this point.
-No, I don’t know how it works in sex, my wife passed away before meds.

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Having owned a synchbot and recently getting a FUNSR2, i usually last anywhere from 3-5 minutes with stroking devices. However, i can last way longer if I’m taking care of business myself. There is something that is almost overstimulating about watching a good scene and having a machine stroke you. For those who are interested in lasting longer, I recently found out that Tylenol can delay your orgasm. If one takes 1000 mg of Acetaminophen 3 hours before sexual activity(on an empty stomach) then you will last way longer. Taking 1250 mg will make you last ridiculously long. Be careful not to take to much of this stuff regularly though. It can damage your liver if you take larger doses(over 3000 mg) every day.

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