Personally I preferred Lucifie’s Handy Control HandyControl 1.2.3 (28.11.2021) - Added Support for Pyro (Remote Control) for running scripts with TheHandy. A hands free setup is really nice to have. Especially if youre using a VR setup. A good water based lube. I can recommend This one Amazon.com: XESSO Water-Based Lube 32 fl oz, All Natural & Hypoallergenic Without Glycerin & Parabens, Slippery Massage Gel for Women, Men and Couples. Made in US & Discreet Package : Health & Household I have had no issues with it. Its not a bad idea to purchase a couple extra sleeves. I did not like using a Fleshlight with the handy. If you are using a Quest VR Heresphere HereSphere VR Video Player for Quest 2/Pro/3 supports Handy, Keon, Launch and Passthrough Is a great piece of software to use also, though I suggest just purchasing it, the demo reminder popup is so frikn annoying its worth the price just to get rid of it.