I never understood how people beat these challenges. Most of the time the beats are too fast. I tried reducing the range of motion on my handy but i stll can’t make it. Am i just sensitive?
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First of all, not being able to beat these is normal. Its far more common than completing it.
There are several reasons why people can do this:
- They are under sensitive. Some people need a lot more stimulation to get close to an orgasm. For some people it is actualy difficult to reach orgasm in normal sex.
- They are older. Age can be a big factor for lasting longer. Experience makes you control your orgasms better, instead of instantly cumming, you can often edge yourself without stopping the action. Your mind can give a lot of control.
- Being used to long videos. Again, its experience, if your average sex session is expected to take 30mins, your body might get used to it and cause you to much easier last those 30mins.
- They chose a less intense setup. Not all sleeves are the same, and which are intense differs per person.
- Drugs. Yes, some drugs enable you to last a lot longer. Its often not recommended to take these often, but for recording a single video enough people find that acceptable. Its to them no diffirent towards taking viagra when going to a hooker once every 2 months.
- Numbness from overintensity. Its a common thing to happen when you go full speed from the start, since there is nothing exceeding that power, your body during the session might see this as normal and not experience this as intense. Its a trick that as 18y old is often used, by cumming only a few hours before meeting the date.
Whichever (if any) works differs per person. And if nothing works, dont be ashamed either. Being able to last through them has as downside that there is usualy nothing to truly force an orgasm either. And trust me, women during sex do like to have that control, being able to last infinitely is a downside there.
Dont try to force you too hard to last through them. If it happens it happens, and if it never does, at least enjoy the part you could last. In the worst case, skip some video portions if you at least want to experience the later portions.
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This is one of the reasons why I created CHP (currently in a full rewrite and expansion). Breaking down Cock Hero and Fap Hero into levels and adding some fun in between can help in experiencing the whole Cock Hero/Fap Hero. Its totally normal to be unable to complete the full challenge in one shot.
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Some people can control when they cum, both men and women.
Get to know your body, become familiar with edging and what brings you back from the edge. Your pelvic floor muscles play a large role in being able to control your orgasm.
If you can’t figure out how to do it through practicing edging, doing kegel exercises can help. It’s not a necessary component, but these exercises will both familiarize yourself with these muscles if you aren’t used to controlling them and make them stronger (the latter is mostly helpful if yours are weakened from age, surgery or poor physical health).
The most common issue people have is not knowing how to control their pelvic floor muscles.
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I use ultra low stimulation sleeves (ones with little to no pattern, super soft) when I actually want to challenge those.
Full on 1 hour + masturbation session is not healthy, btw.
I got old. If I’m not very interested in the subject matter I don’t stay hard, forget about cumming. So most of the time I get bored and nope out of these whatever Hero videos before I am close to finishing.
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What makes it unhealthy?
The experts I’ve heard from make it clear that there’s no inherent problem as long as you don’t do it compulsively and it doesn’t affect your job or relationships.
I was thinking about retrograde ejaculation when typing that but couldn’t find the exact research that suggests it is inherently a problem. So forget about it. All I wanted to suggest is that it is normal to fail a 1 hour + FH challenge as a functional individual.
Also I was in my refactory period after an hour session and was revaluing my life decisions, so yeah.
I didn’t know about retrograde ejaculation! Thanks for bringing that up and causing me to do some reading, always fun to learn new things!
I do agree that it’s unproductive to obsess over inconsequential elements of sexual performance rather than just having fun and feeling good. It is normal to orgasm early during those challenges (they’re called challenges for a reason).
Tangent:
There’s also silly misconceptions about relationships, sex and orgasms surrounding this topic. Not cumming isn’t usually a benefit in sex. I’d argue that both partners cumming fast and often is more fun while having sex with someone than cumming once after an hour of intimacy.
(Tangentially related; this is something I appreciate about Maloxx’ animations. The focus on frequent orgasm is very hot to me personally.)
I get that a lot of men don’t cum as often in a short time span tho and that’s not an issue. Good sex imo consists of foreplay, passionate intimacy, orgasm, cuddling, ramped up intimacy, rinse and repeat if and for as long is desired and reasonable.
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I had a vasectomy so I guess im immune?
Guess I will continue to goon for hours.
Also, my technique is to disassociate and relax my muscles. Sometimes if I’m relaxed enough I can cum without the overstimulation following and can go for another round immediately after.
Disclaimer: I have a very healthy sex life with my wife. If you are dating, and this ever interrupts your relationship consider whether you may have a masturbation problem.
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Gooning isn’t a known cause of retrograde ejaculation. It’s either an issue with one’s bladder sphincter or intentionally caused by squeezing the urethra at the base of the penis or along the taint.
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Regarding drugs and endurance, I recently discovered hemp THC gummies (legal in the USA due to 2018 Farm Bill changes). I’ve discovered that it adds a little extra hardness if already stimulated, and extra endurance in the sense that it makes lasting longer near the edge easier, but too strong of a gummy(ies) can actually make cumming difficult even while it maintains long erection easier.
An aside is that THC gummies did wonders for my wife’s libido. We only averaged sex 0.5 per day for the first 24 years. Now it was like a magic libido change for her and it’s 1.5 times per day. (Plus probably another 1 per day with The Handy.)
Having sex every two days on average for 24 years doesn’t sound half bad xD
Personally, my libido varies a lot. It’s common for me to be in the mood 2-3 times a week but lately I’ve often gone a whole month only masturbating once.
I can beat the one-shot 5-10min fap hero challenges pretty easily, unless it’s a really good one imo, but the +1 hour videos might take me a couple tries. It gets easier after you’ve seen the video and know what’s coming.
Also gonna echo what Islanti said:
And honestly, this isn’t even limited to faphero… I’ve had a few bedmates who just performed awfully, so I got bored and let them finish without me. It be like that sometimes…
good guy gooner saving me from having to google this myself. Pretty sure I’m already infertile due to physical trauma in my single digit years so I don’t care either. Shamelessly hopping on the blur spoiler train 
Here’s persuasion advice that worked well for me when considering marriage. Use this argument and gauge whether to marry someone based in part on the feedback.
If one spouse wants sex 365 days a year, and the other wants it 0 days per year, then the 50/50 even split average is 182.5 days per year. So that’s about the worst case scenario, so every other day should be an agreed general minimum and both are giving and deprived equally.
And that approximation of an agreement held longer than most marriages… though I admit without Hitachi Magic Wand as available backup to make sure she cums every and any time she wants with no more effort than preferred…it would have been more difficult. Now we both want it 700 times a year. 
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I would say that re-evaluating life decisions is healthy.
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post nut clarity
Depends on length, script intensity. For long ones, usually no.
Most long ones aren’t varied enough to go through IMO (full strokes start to finish).
Short PMV and HMV scripts are usually better quality, so i’ll play a few of those most of the time.
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I think this also depends on what you´re sensitive to. Weirdly enough those fap hero´s that try to do things as intense as possible, with a lot of patternchanges get me to the finish way quicker.
So maybe test out a few different to see if it makes a difference to you.
Additionally, what might play into this might be a difference between circumcised or not.
You are in general less sensitive circumcised, the skin gets thicker and you obviously lack a few nerveendings, leading to a longer stimulationtolerance.
Last point might be a mental one, as already mentioned before. These kind of games are played in a lot of cases by people with high consume in pornographic material, so the threshold for the mental stimulation might be way higher than in many people.
For me: As long as the patterns change every few seconds or it´s so fast you go into the overstimulationnumbness and going full stroke it´s not that hard to beat a fap hero.
Way harder are slower, more steady patterns, worst case focussing on another point of the range of motion at different times, so as said before it highly depends on the specific fap hero
Thanks for all the replies, i understand that it’s not normal to beat those challenges. But maybe i’m also more sensitive due to not being very active sexually. I do like to go for long(ish) periods of abstinence.