I’ll say this as someone who does not yet have a Syncbot but is totally going to get one. I think I’d recommend the Quest 3 as well. The Handy is GREAT in ways that the Syncbot probably never will be unless they make a different version (the customization and stroke length are prime examples). I really want to experience it still because I’ve craved multi-axis stimulation HOWEVER what I will say is that the Quest 3 absolutely blew my mind. I have experienced VR from headsets since about 2019 now and gone through 2-3 different headsets. Once I got the Quest 3 though, it totally changed my perception of VR. No longer is VR just virtual screens that sorta give you the perception of being in a virtual world, no way, with Quest 3’s incredible good passthrough mode, the world of VR is how I envisioned that it SHOULD be from Day 1 of such technology.
Being able to walk around your house or room with your headset on in Passthrough mode almost as if you were just wearing see-through, clear goggles is mind blowing. Seeing my own body and hands with incredible FPS registering is just uncanny. It’s hard to believe at times that it’s not actually my hands but rather a video SHOWING me how the outside world actually looks. In other words, it feels more like a glass layer/plastic layer rather than a video screen. It’s THAT good. Albeit, in darker lighting the image quality can be a bit blurrier but it’s STILL convincing when you’re focusing on the fact that the VR woman in your bed sucking your member looks like she’s really there. The first time you experience passthrough VR porn, it feels the way VR porn ALWAYS SHOULD HAVE wherein the sex scene isn’t just you in some absurd voyeur experience where you watch this dude and his super harry arms get fucked by some 20 year old pornstar, no, now it FEELS like you.
I currently use the Handy and the Quest 3. I’ll definitely try the Syncbot as I mentioned above, but the Quest 3 I think is a far bigger game changer than the Syncbot is so far. I don’t want to downplay what the Syncbot brings to the table, just that, believe me, if you are seeking immersion, what the Quest 3 offers as far as immersion is far greater than maybe a little suction and extra stimulation would bring. The Handy and Quest 3 combo I use currently STILL makes me feel like I’m the one in the scene. Hell, you know what? It doesn’t even feel like a “Scene” anymore, it doesn’t feel like I’M in the scene, it feels like the woman in the VR Video is the one in MY room on MY chair or on MY bed. It’s mindblowing. So if you’re looking for more immersion and fulfilling sexual fantasies then the Quest 3 will absolutely deliver.
From what I’ve heard so far tho, the Syncbot is GREAT but DIFFERENT to the Handy. They’re different machines with different mindsets for their creation. The Handy wasn’t necessarily invented to simulate specifically blowjobs or some particular sex act except maybe handjobs or just serve as a vehicle for other sleeves/masturbators. That is still INCREDIBLY cool and dynamic. It’s a great toy. I started with the Fleshlight launch and it’s an improvement over that in almost every way except that the Launch seemed to have more “torque” or thrust or whatever. It had a more powerful motor in other words with more impact, but the Handy of course has far, far, far more speed, longer strokes, more finesse, more subtlety as well and so on. The versatility of the Handy I think is probably what will keep it on top of most people’s lists. Thus far, I don’t find that while using the Handy with Quest 3 and passthrough porn or otherwise that I think “hmmm this isn’t immersive, it doesn’t feel real enough”. Granted, I’ve used the Handy long enough now that I crave a little different excitement but in other words, still, if you’re looking for MORE IMMERSION, then the Quest 3 and Handy is a great combo and you’re better off going for the Quest 3.
ON THE OTHER HAND. If you’re looking for more stimulation of your member and don’t really have the biggest desire for VR fantasies or having some pornstar appear on your bed as if she might sorta kinda be there like she’s a ghost, then maybe Syncbot first? Like are you the kind of person who is more interested in JOI vids, music videos, 2D edging vids, hentai vids, 3d animation vids and so on? Then hey, maybe Syncbot is a more interesting purchase before VR. Like if you REALLY want that one hentai blowjob vid to be super believable and imagine getting sucked off by Tracer or insert other random fantasy character, then yeah maybe Syncbot is the way to go from what I hear. It sounds like, especially for blowjobs, that it makes it feel a little more realistic or at least believable since it can twist to create suction or tightness and the top part can rotate at the same time. In this way, if you’re more interested in diverse and potentially more realistically simulated scripted vid experiences, Syncbot might be your best option first.