A lot of other adult websites use a custom made payment solution and they paid a lot of money to make that happen. RealSync doesn’t have that kind of capital. Of course we’ve looked at other solutions like EPOCH and CCBill but those are subscription payment providers and more so they prohibit marketplaces (as do many other payment providers) as that is considered 3rd party payment processing.
RealSync does provide the option to buy RealSync gift cards with a credit card but as for getting the whole site under CC it is a very tricky nut to crack. I understand that is far from ideal for many and it is absolutely not RealSync’s choice. Ultimately it is Visa / Mastercard that make the rules and those rules apply to everyone from the acquiring banks to the payment gateways. Heck there are even some Crypto payment processors that follow Visa / Mastercard’s guidelines like BitPay.
Sorry that happened to you. I highly recommend using Litecoin and coinbase. You can buy only what you need instantly and because coinbase hooks up directly to RealSync, you can make purchases without ever having to move that money. Alternatively you can purchase gift cards with Credit / Debit card.