I just received my first toy (handy) but didn’t had a great first experience.
I figured I’m too long down there (19cm/7.48" lenght, 14cm/5.512" girth) for the default sleeve and it kept falling out of the strap from the top after a minute.
I tried straping tightly, medium or lightly but none did the job.
What sleeve would you guys recommend in my case?
Should I also buy another strap, 3d print something or the sleeve should be enougth of an upgrade on it’s own to start enjoying and see if I want to invest more into this?
Thanks in advance for your help and for everyone that makes this community great
There’s a 3d printable thing that replaces the strap completely, to hold larger sleeves, and you can stick a straight up onahole on it. Might be your best bet. The guy removed it for free and hasn’t put it up to buy through his seller profile, but I was able to grab the file from way back and 3d print.
Wrap the first strap piece around the sleeve between the strap guides (as if it were on a handy) creating a ring. Wrap it tight enough that the ring won’t slip out of the strap guides but not so tight that it’s uncomfortable/difficult to slide the sleeve. Cut off any extra strap material, leaving enough overlap to keep it securely closed.
Replace the standard Handy strap with one from this roll.
Attach the sleeve to the handy by wrapping the handy strap around the sleeve ring strap. Stay inside the sleeve while doing this so as not to make the handy strap too tight. Make sure the two straps lock together (that you have the hook side of one strap against the loop side of the other strap).
You can now slide out of the sleeve and remove the sleeve from the handy. You do NOT need to unstrap anything - leave the straps connected in place. You may have to adjust the tension of either strap to get it just right, but once you are comfortable you never need to remove the straps from the handy. To use it, slide your sleeve into the strap first and then insert yourself into it.
Hi, I’m much larger than average and had the same problem.
Just gonna kinda lay it all out there. Not something I like discussing typically as it feels like I’m complaining my wallet is too big or something. But since You asked-
Have to admit that I don’t have the same stamina as most avid users. I have an active sex life and only use the handy when my partner is out of town. My penis is used to vagina/mouth/hand and my mind is used to focusing on someone else. Just focused on me with a death grip you and I’m a one pump chump.
I’m way too big and sensitive for most sleeves. I tend to push the sleeves out and/or it’s like an insane death grip on my dick and I’m finished very quickly.
I have 3 handy sleeves and the open one (original) is ok in a pinch. There’s a closed off one with a very stretch top but I end up pushing the sleeve up an extra 2-3” and it has to be adjusted or ratcheted down.
I have a Tenga Spinner which I bottom out on but it has enough squish to not fly off. This thing literally sucks the soul out of my body as it’s tight. I think I almost gave myself a hernia coming in this thing and had to rip out the power cord to make it stop.
I just purchased a couple Onahole (sp?) toys. Make sure you get the ones under 500grams …but it doesn’t look promising. My finger was a tight squeeze and they look short. Obviously these are made for a different demographic but I wanted to see what the fuss was about. If I’m wrong, I’ll report back.
What I did find that works: I have been dabbling at making sex toys for my partner and I. I made a grinding cock ring and some spacers so we can control penetration depth. I made a stroker too. I used some skin-safe silicone on Amazon that mixes in two parts You can get fancy and use non-sulfur clay to basically make a negative of the interior if you want bumps and whatever. I went super simple and used a soda bottle, put a spray paint can inside, and poured silicone into the soda bottle. 3 hours later and I cut away the soda bottle. Voila! It made a super smooth comfortable sleeve that doesn’t feel like I’m fucking a vacuum cleaner or will go flying off.
With waste and learning curve you’ll probably be in about $80 for 3-4 sleeves + $20 in clay. (You’ll probably lose 1/4 to testing but then be able to make 3-4 sleeves.). A sleeve costs $20 so honestly it isn’t that bad
