If an onahole or sleeve is infected with stuff then it’s best to chuck it and purchase a new one as condoms only protect what they cover. They don’t protect what they don’t like the base of your penis where your pubic hair is, where if you get nasty stuff there and then accidentally wipe it into your mouth or on your penis during clean up.
Congrats you got another dose of that infection.
Condoms are fairly strong and stretchy as long as nothing to pointy is pressured against them. I don’t believe an any handy branded sleeve has that as it would be something that would feel like it’s scratching on your penis at the very least.
Best use of an condom in this scenario is to wear a condom use a different sleeve/onahole (presuming the infection isn’t at your balls or base of your penis) or even your hand with some lube and yank the condom off into the bin before taking baby wet wipes to clean your self up, make sure to use anti-bacterial sanitiser and then use soap to wash you hands. That way you contain any infection your put out and kill anything that gets on your hands during the clean up. (hopefully before you rub your eyes or mouth)
TLDR: It is best to wait till your recovered though if you just want release then watch something arousing for a while and you should end up being a quick shot. Condom shouldn’t break unless your putting your penis in something stabby.
My somewhat similar experience (not infection)
My only similar experience has been with trying sounding where I ended up hurt and man those following days of it hurt hard to pee as it felt like I was reopening the wound and tossing salt on it. It was enough so that I tried to limit pee’ing as much as possible and try to slowly let it out. It took 2 weeks roughly to fully heal but only 1 week for my penis to decide that it was healed enough for some action.
So I took the leap for it as I wanted it too alongside thinking it was fine due to getting somewhat erect with no pain and…ow pain, nope. The movement or tensing just caused the same pain again. So had to tough it out until I could pee fine and then a few days, it was not worth at all the first minute or two of action I got.