damn, it seems everybody has a handy, im still on the launch myself but have been thinking about getting a handy as an extra option for sessions 
im just a slow decider lol
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I have orange Tenga Spinner with handy and it feels pretty nice
ahahah Epic
I just use the original fleshlights. A couple of good rubberbands is all you really need if you want to use the case. If not, just strap at the head (right under the base that would normally keep the fleshlight secure in the holder) and put rubberband or two closing closing off the other end, attached to the very top of the handy.
This thread piques my interest and I may have given in to my curiosity and went overboard with ordering new stuff to test. I’ll post reviews here later.
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What? doesn’t the sleeve get all bunched up on upstrokes?
I heard the tenga spinners are good. gonna give it a try 
Which spinners do you guys recommend? I tried the brick and its too tight and uncomfortable.
I ordered the beads and the shell since i heard they were the most realistic feeling for bj, the brick is the most intense, they have the soft versions as well if its still too intense
Soft Brick and Orbs
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does that work? I have one of the regular tenga spinners and its wayy too tight, even without the handy. I tried getting used to it and using it with the handy and it was awful. I’ve been thinking the “soft” versions would be better but haven’t seen many posts about them
I’ve never tried the regular versions but yea apparently the softs aren’t nearly as tight.
Currently I prefer the Handy Gen 2 sleeve over the spinners tho
yeah the handy gen 2 is what I have and I like it, it’s just nearing it’s max uses. I may try the soft tenga one eventually after reading that review but I’m more interested in the new handy sleeves
Don’t get the Lotus sleeve if youre girthy. Needs a lot of lube and the handy struggles with it. I tried flipping it inside out and that was a bad idea as the sleeve flew out the strap, but lucky me paused the video with the quest 2 controller immediately.
I’m sticking with the gen 2 sleeve although it would be fun to try something new.
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I got the three new Dream Collection sleeves. I’m not sure how I feel about them yet. The Lips and Lotus I haven’t found to be very stimulating, but what I’m really having an issue with is that they both seem like they’re always pushing me out rather than sucking me in. They both have a chamber in the very end that feels fine at first if you squeeze all the air out as you slide it on, but then it immediately gets air inside it and just pushes on you. Maybe this works differently for the foreskin-havers. I have this same issue with all of the Japanese onaholes I’ve tried too so I dunno. I’m going to keep trying them some more and if they don’t get any better maybe I’ll put a hole in them.
I haven’t tried Touch, the open ended one, very much. My initial thoughts are I like it, but once the lube starts to dry out from exposure to the air, no amount of relubing or water will ever get it to slide right. This isn’t particular to the Touch sleeve though. I never got the Quickshot sleeves to work right because of this reason which is a shame because I like the Quickshot sleeves and I actually really enjoyed the Quickshot device.
Hadn’t noticed the new sleeves for the handy had open-ended designs and what not, tried the original a few times when I got the handy, and ended up replacing it pretty quickly with a fleshlight (with a solid shell mount, not the strap), doesn’t help that the experience with the strap and so on is honestly not great in comparison to using a fleshlight hard mounted into it.
Also screw you guys, and your sharing of information, just spent far too much ordering several suggestions here.
With all that being said, I will point out that what feels good and what not, depends on a few factors:
Obviously on the person taste, but not just on the toy itself, but also the kind of videos one likes to watch, a sleeve good for some dick ripping videos is not necessarily going to be good for GFE slow experiences.
The lube used which makes a huge difference, I used to really like astroglide liquid which I can no longer get at any reasonable prices, currently use tracy dog water lube which has a really nice consistency (similar to astroglide, but maybe slightly thicker) and is reasonably long-lasting, although wish it came in smaller flasks, since the consistency changes after a month or so of being “open”, also quite like gun oil h2o which is also pretty nice.
Have tried several sliquid, pjur, durex, aquaglide and maybe a few other brands, and honestly the biggest thing regarding lubes at least for me is the consistency of it, there are ofc also differences in how long a lube lasts, but those tend to be more secondary for me, especially since it depends a bit on the sleeve, stoya destroya sleeve seems to almost absorb lube, since it dries quicker than say kimmy granger rebel.
The stroker being used also makes a significant difference, like my favorite fleshlight sleeve is kimmy granger mischief (her anal fleshlight), yet due to the handy having a greater stroke length than the fleshlight launch, I can say that the sleeve experience now isn’t as good, because on the longer strokes my tip gets closer to the entrance, which has a bit more of a rougher feel, something that isn’t as pleasing, especially at the start if it is a bit more fast-paced (it is fine if it is slower lengthier strokes).
On the other hand, Eva Lovia spice (her anal fleshlight) sees a lot more use with the handy while I barely ever used it with the launch.
This was something that I stupidly was not expecting, and honestly wouldn’t have thrown 10+ fleshlights away that I never used if I knew this, even if I suspect I still wouldn’t be using most of those.
Apologies if someone has already mentioned these but if you like shorter open-ended strokers, this set from lovehoney is pretty fun:
You get three reversible ~2 inch strokers (bumps, ridges, waves), all with different sensations so a good chance you’ll find one among them you really like. They sit nicely using the Handy default grip band too.
Also, for the Tenga Brick Spinner from me.
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This changed my life! heated is the only way to go, used with the handy many times, fells like deep throat. can also add a chopped off FL piece (any of the quickshots) at the bottom and still work with handy.
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Has anyone used the A10 Cyclone Oral sleeve with the Handy? That looks like it would provide some intense tongue action.
So I just bought myself a Handy and I have used it twice so far…kind of disappointed with the sleeve that comes with it. I pushed the air out of the top and it still didn’t really improve the experience for me…I come from using the Keon, so I guess I’m a bit spoiled by the sleeve material.
Anyways, I’m stuck between either going for that Gen 2 sleeve because I’ve read that it’s considerably better or dropping considerably more money on some Quickshots and a Quick Connect. Is the Gen 2 sleeve the same feel just a longer sleeve?
Honestly, I’m leaning towards the latter because I can have more versatility with the Quick Connect and my past experience with FL was good. I had an STU and a RR Utopia sleeve, both mind-blowing experiences…In fact, it was one of the main reasons I went with the Keon over the Handy in the first place. My only concern really is the weight of the Quickshots, does it impact the speed very much, and do I need to get a new strap too?